I picked up a copy of High School Confidential at the library the other day. I won’t give it a thumbs up or down yet, but one point the author makes is that he envisions life as being a Track. Works well with phrases like “being on track” and “on the right track”. By following the Track, he found that each year during college, his life improved. Got better. Was more pleasant. He got the notion into his head that as each life year passes, our lives should move toward improvement upon the past year.
Then he went to a college career day, where hundreds of corporations were vying for the best of the best, and the students were clamoring for jobs that would require them to work 60-80 hours a week in cubicles. NOT an improvement, he thought. And yet it’s what was expected of ALL of the graduating students; finish college and go work at a job that says, “success”. Never mind that you might not really LIKE the job you’re applying for; it’s what you do. Instead, the author opted to fold his resumes into paper airplanes and then jump in a fountain (at which point I said a silent Right On).
As a parent of kids who are being educated in a non-traditional manner, I have to wonder if they will ever feel that pressure to choose the route that takes them to “success”. I’ve talked about this before, but I do hope that both of my kids see their lives as enjoyable, as something that can be improved upon each year, rather than jumping on the Track.
















Shelly said,
October 30, 2007 @ 4:19 pm
Kris, this reminded me of our mutual friend’s oldest, who at one time wanted to be an entymologist … then a research librarian … then a chef … and his latest thought is electrical engineer. I say, HOORAY! That he gets to be “waffling” at this stage in his life and not having to settle in right now to whatever it is he wants to be for the rest of his life! To me, success = happiness, at wherever you choose to be at any given moment. Money is just SO not it.